How would you feel?
Just curious...
Say that you are seperated from your spouse. And you are not extremely close to your sister who is 8 years younger than you, but you guys have always gotten along and enjoyed eachother's company....
Say that your ex-spouse is now talking to your younger sister (strictly as friends - she's 16!). They talk regularly, via IM and phone.... No idea what they talk about because your sister refuses to tell anyone, including your mother....
Say your mom calls you last night and informs you of all of this, that it's been going on for a couple of weeks. And now your sister has informed your mom that she wants to go hang out with your ex, and that she doesn't feel comfortable talking to you due to the circumnstances....
How would you feel? Wouldn't you feel like the SOB has no right to sit and continue a relationship with your sister (when they were never really that close to begin with!), and that he has no right to feed her a bunch of crap and turn her against you? Wouldn't you want to know what's being said? Wouldn't you be devastated?
Yea....
Say that you are seperated from your spouse. And you are not extremely close to your sister who is 8 years younger than you, but you guys have always gotten along and enjoyed eachother's company....
Say that your ex-spouse is now talking to your younger sister (strictly as friends - she's 16!). They talk regularly, via IM and phone.... No idea what they talk about because your sister refuses to tell anyone, including your mother....
Say your mom calls you last night and informs you of all of this, that it's been going on for a couple of weeks. And now your sister has informed your mom that she wants to go hang out with your ex, and that she doesn't feel comfortable talking to you due to the circumnstances....
How would you feel? Wouldn't you feel like the SOB has no right to sit and continue a relationship with your sister (when they were never really that close to begin with!), and that he has no right to feed her a bunch of crap and turn her against you? Wouldn't you want to know what's being said? Wouldn't you be devastated?
Yea....
posted by Jes at 9:54 AM
16 Comments:
IN TOTAL AGREEMENT. It's a pretty inappropriate relationship in my HUMBLE opinion.
oh! no sista!!!!! that is so not right in my book!!!!!!
As far as I am concerned and I have said this, he is after her ass. KWIM? at that age, a relationship if you want to call it that will be sexually oriented either by her or him. After all he is the hard done by guy. I can just hear the things he is telling her. But it is up to her parents to step in and put a stop to it. It is in NO WAY your job to put a stop to it or make you feel bad about it. It is up to her parents to realize the inappropriateness of this. And yes when I was 16 my 10 year older sisters boyfriends were after me too. Been there done that.
You need to have your Mom nip it in the bud. Either that or you need to set him straight. Nothing good can come out of this relationship at all! Mo
oh heeelll no! that is wrong on so many levels
Sooo wrong!! I just cant see how he cant see the inappropriatness (if thats even a word!)
You need to get your mama to sort her out... thats just not on... hope it all gets better Jes. Sending you huge hugs from me.
you already know how I feel about it. it's a crush that needs to be crushed before something really bad happens. Can't wait to see you tonight!!!
Girl, I agree - It's wrong on more than one level. There could be legal repercussions on him too - NOT SMART. Your mom really needs to put her foot down and/or talk to the police.
Um, no way is that Kosher! But your Mom needs to step in and be the bad guy, not you.
OMG I would NOT stand for that. You need to tell your mom to tell your sis she is NOT allowed to see your ex, friends or not. Or you tell your sister not to, that it would hurt you and its not a cool sister thing to do. I am sorry but that is so inapporpriate its not even funny. Argh I just want to hurt your ex, seriously what is wrong with him? He should not be talking to a 16 year old no matter what BECAUSE of the age difference. ARGH so mad grrrrrr. I guve you permission to kick balls so they retract!
It is TOTALLY inappropriate! Your ex is up to no good!
That is just so, SO wrong! I wonder if your ex is doing that because he knows it will get to you though. I agree with the rest, your mom needs to end that immediately. She's 16 so he'd better back that bus up!
Dear God what is wrong with that man????
Ok ,, if your Mom knows about this, then she should be putting her foot up your ex's ass and also ending what ever is going on. She's young and she's finding it very captivating that an older guy is talking to her ,, doesn't matter that it's your ex to her. The entire situation is wrong in all aspects. Sad that blood is supposed to be thicker than water, but it never seems to work that way. I hope your Mom knocks some sense in to her and nips this in the bud asap. *Hugs*
Jes, that is just not right, I think what he is doing is just wrong. I hope it all works and your sister realizes that her actions right now are very hurtful to you. (((HUGS)))
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